The other side

We as a community have developed a feeling sided more towards pessimism… more close to the darker aspects. We don’t go for the other side of our lives. We don’t realize that life is beautiful, it is worth enjoying… worth embracing and worth loving… All we need to realize is to see “the other side”.

Times may not be so good,  situations might not be favorable,  colleagues may not be friendly and boss might be too bossy BUT there’s always a better look to see. A better perspective which gives you happiness and confidence to live, to smile and to stay in. Yes! Start taking things the way life doesn’t want you to! Don’t go on the dark way people want you to! Be happy! Be optimistic! Don’t let zeal slip away! Life is surely not easy. Difficulties are everywhere but what’s the fun if it goes plain? Take it as a learning; as a priceless experience! As something which guides in darker times of futures. Don’t give up the struggle, We certainly don’t want that to happen. Do we? 🙂

Wise Judgement

Sad is the scenario when  phrases like “If he’s saying, he’s saying it right”  are heard.

Blessed with equal mental and intellectual capabilities, each one of us needs to realize the importance of having their own vision for life. Life is not a 1 hour and 50 minutes movie which we can enjoy through a perspective of camera, we have to see it with our own eyes, own senses and own mind, not what director and cameraman shows us.

Unfortunately, we have turned out to be so lazy that making a wise decision about our opinions of things is not any more important to us. We feel contented to see world through others’ eyes. However, it is desperately needed for each one of us to critically review our perspectives because our point of view changes the things from good to bad, bad to worse and worse to worst.

Another important fact to be considered is a wise judgement of people, we find around. With the rising levels of hatred and professional jealousies, people have started attempting sub-standard ways of defaming others. In similar scenarios, we need to realize and react after developing a critical analysis of the issue. Being a victim, it is not vague any more how things change and how are they made to be 😦

We have become  no more than play toys in the hands of others; seeing what they want us to see, speaking what they want out from us and thinking what govern. This needs to be changed… We have to distinguish our own opinions, our own perspective and our own thinking and judgement.

Paradigm Shift

We cannot always be correct! Who to blame? We, They, Time, Circumstances are what else may be the reason… but this is a fact… Our perceptions are erred, our judgments wrong, our decisions inappropriate, our deeds mistakes and our learning EXPERIENCE!

Yes! Being wrong is nothing bad… everyone in his life gets, sooner or later. But the thing which we need to extract from this is a good perspective. A paradigm shift; that gives us the better vision of issues, a better approach to context and a better learning exposure leading to priceless experience.

An acute incident which reminded me of this “paradigm shift” theory was a project report for technical writing course. While using the word “No” in my yesterday’s post, I forgot that “NO” is a very strong word… and there is always a learning opportunity in each thing we do, each thing we think. I forgot that learning is an ever going process which is on and on and on… it never ends but does fluctuate with our absorbing ability, our mindset, the environment and certainly WE!

It’s WE who get the most from what is the worst for others and likewise can do worst with what is best to others… It’s all us!!! A paradigm shift! A change in perspective! 🙂