The other side

We as a community have developed a feeling sided more towards pessimism… more close to the darker aspects. We don’t go for the other side of our lives. We don’t realize that life is beautiful, it is worth enjoying… worth embracing and worth loving… All we need to realize is to see “the other side”.

Times may not be so good,  situations might not be favorable,  colleagues may not be friendly and boss might be too bossy BUT there’s always a better look to see. A better perspective which gives you happiness and confidence to live, to smile and to stay in. Yes! Start taking things the way life doesn’t want you to! Don’t go on the dark way people want you to! Be happy! Be optimistic! Don’t let zeal slip away! Life is surely not easy. Difficulties are everywhere but what’s the fun if it goes plain? Take it as a learning; as a priceless experience! As something which guides in darker times of futures. Don’t give up the struggle, We certainly don’t want that to happen. Do we? 🙂

Paradigm Shift

We cannot always be correct! Who to blame? We, They, Time, Circumstances are what else may be the reason… but this is a fact… Our perceptions are erred, our judgments wrong, our decisions inappropriate, our deeds mistakes and our learning EXPERIENCE!

Yes! Being wrong is nothing bad… everyone in his life gets, sooner or later. But the thing which we need to extract from this is a good perspective. A paradigm shift; that gives us the better vision of issues, a better approach to context and a better learning exposure leading to priceless experience.

An acute incident which reminded me of this “paradigm shift” theory was a project report for technical writing course. While using the word “No” in my yesterday’s post, I forgot that “NO” is a very strong word… and there is always a learning opportunity in each thing we do, each thing we think. I forgot that learning is an ever going process which is on and on and on… it never ends but does fluctuate with our absorbing ability, our mindset, the environment and certainly WE!

It’s WE who get the most from what is the worst for others and likewise can do worst with what is best to others… It’s all us!!! A paradigm shift! A change in perspective! 🙂